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Wherever-Whenever Availability
"We
were more than a case number," said Monica Leitch of her family's
experience with LSS. She and Carlton, her husband, recently adopted two
girls with the assistance of LSS' Special Needs Adoption Services in
Mankato.
The Leitches
first learned about Maya, 10, and Marlette, 9, in October of 2000, when
they received a blurry photograph along with a brief description of each
sister. "The kids still seemed to have a spark in their eyes," recalled
Monica. Maya and Marlette had been wards of the state, stuck in the foster
care system for several years. By the time they first came to live with
Carlton and Monica, the girls had become very aggressive. "Maya was
especially prone to outbursts," said Carlton. They specifically remembered
one tantrum that lasted 18 hours. "People don't
have crises on an 8:00 a.m.-to-5:00 p.m. schedule," explained Rebecca
Moore, the program manager of Special Needs Adoptions. Rebecca worked
closely with the Leitches over the year-long adoption process. "When they
really need you, you need to meet them where they're at."
The support
Carlton and Monica received reached well outside the walls of the LSS
Mankato office. "It took a considerable commitment of time on everyone's
part," said Carlton. "Being available, wherever, whenever, was important.
We knew that we could call at 2:30 in the morning if we needed to."
"Without
Rebecca and the others serving as a sounding board, this adoption would
never have worked," Monica believes. "We needed that nonjudgmental
support."
Rebecca
remembered one day in particular. She had been sanding wallboard during
her maternity leave when she got a call from the Leitches. They met and
discussed matters with Rebecca, still covered with white dust. "The
service is about supporting the families," she said. Rebecca believes that
helping placements "stick" for people reflects LSS' mission. "Christ loves
children, and He wants the best for them."
The
girls have made great strides over the course of the last year, according
to Monica. "It took them a while to understand that their
opinion
mattered. They hadn't experienced that before. When they first came to
live with us, the girls' behaviors were
closer to that of 3- and 4-year-olds. Today, most of their behaviors are
typical of 9- or 10-year-olds; they can become themselves, finally."
When asked
about their experience with LSS, Carlton remarked, "The people there
really are working from that higher calling."
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250,000 Meals (and Love) Delivered to Seniors in 2001
Senior Dining and meals-on-wheels are two Senior Nutrition programs that
are joint partnerships between communities and Lutheran Social Service of
Minnesota (LSS) to provide nutritious meals and much-needed social contact
for individuals 60 years of age and older. The focus is to help seniors
remain healthy and active, and to enable them to live independently in
their homes and communities.
In
addition to meals, the Senior Nutrition program provides vital information
about senior services and programs throughout the community, social
opportunities, health and nutritional information, grocery shopping
assistance, and volunteer opportunities. It also provides a connection
with friendly, trustworthy people who care about these homebound
individuals.
The Senior Nutrition Program is a valuable resource to many older adults.
It is the largest program of the Older American Act. The Senior Nutrition
program is both a preventative and restorative service. Senior dining
helps keep older adults adequately nourished so they can lead active and
independent lives. Well-nourished persons are less likely to become ill,
and those who are ill or injured are likely to spend less time in a
hospital or other institutional setting. Meals-on-wheels help restore
health to people who have undergone recent surgery or hospitalization.
These programs help people maintain health so that they can remain
independent in their home for as long as possible.
In 2001, Lutheran Social Service provided more than 250,000
meals-on-wheels to homebound seniors in Regions 1, 2 and 5.
A new partnership in meal delivery has been formed joining LSS with some
local high schools. The service is called "Seniors Helping Seniors". In
this very vital service to the isolated, elderly homebound, senior high
school students from local schools reach out and lend a hand in taking
care of the older adults by delivering meals to them. "Seniors Helping
Seniors" is a program where students use their study hall period and
deliver meals-on-wheels to homebound seniors.
LSS relies heavily on volunteers to perform numerous vital duties in
providing this service.
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Details, Deadlines and Decisions Typify an LSS Guardian's Day
The only things typical about an
LSS guardian's day are the endless details, deadlines and decisions that
relate to 40 to 50 different people, or "wards" for whom guardians care.
The best way to stay on top of these demands, LSS guardians say, is to
visit the wards as often as possible, so that decisions are based on the
ward's situation, values, preferences and family involvement. If it is
impossible to determine what a ward's values or preferences are, then the
rule for making decisions is "in the best interest" of the ward.
Guardians
are expected to make lots of decisions each day, especially about
supportive services and medical needs. They make life-and-death decisions
daily whether or not to resuscitate, intubate,
medicate or amputate.
But, there are other decisions
to make and arrangements to handle relative to personal belongings and
estates, however large or modest. This includes paying bills, collecting
income, advocating for benefits and managing real estate and financial
assets.
There are "security" versus
"least restrictive" decisions, too. Should Cliff be allowed to drive
again, given that he has completed a treatment program and has remained
sober for 12 months? Is it the right time to move Louise from her
apartment to an Customized Living Services facility?
Property decisions are
different, but equally complex. Do we have the sheep at Orville's farm
sheered this month or next? Now that Emily is in a home, recovering from
surgery, what is to be done with her cats and the dog? Should the furnace
be replaced in Mary's house before winter? Does John have enough cash for
the next six months without cashing in the CD that matures next week?
Each decision requires paperwork
for Medical Assistance, Veteran's Assistance, Social Security, County and
SSI. Plus, there are court papers, as well as the IRS.
Meeting with a ward where he or
she lives is important for delivering a quality service.
And while the details, deadlines and decisions vary from individual to
individual, the nature of the work substitute decision-making of the
highest ethical standard is always at the heart of what a guardian does.
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Financial Counseling … At Home
"Overwhelmed by credit card debt? Considering
bankruptcy? No, this isn't the start of a commercial for a financial
consultant; these are the first words you'll read when you visit the LSS
Consumer Credit Counseling Service web site. Getting financial advice from
professional counselors just got a whole lot easier.
People from throughout Minnesota have learned
that free financial counseling is only a phone call or, if you prefer, a
click of the mouse away. The program, funded in part by United Way in some
communities, allows people to work with qualified consultants when it's
most convenient for them, whether by phone appointment or through a
step-by-step process on the Internet.
"People enjoy being able to access from the
comfort of their homes," says Cherrish Holland, LSS program director of
Financial Counseling. "We can even see people over their lunch break at
work." Last year, alone, over 1100 households engaged in phone
appointments with LSS financial counselors. Cherrish says the phone
appointments are very similar to office consultations, except for one
interesting detail: "Some people have negative connotations associated
with social services. We can break down those barriers, wherever they are,
and provide a high quality of service. It's a great way to reach people."
Marjorie Klimek agrees that convenience and
anonymity are crucial to the success of the program. Marjorie is an LSS
Certified Credit Counselor in Duluth who has counseled many people over
the phone. "We're out there to help anybody in the community, without
selling financial products, and they don't have to be low-income to access
our wide variety of services."
In 2001, there were 71 households that
received online counseling via LSS' web site. Karen Morrissey, an LSS
Financial Counselor out of St. Paul, believes that phone and online
counseling "gives us a chance to help people whom we might not otherwise
be able to help. We can get to them, even if they can't get to us."
The LSS web site can lead people to take
action in a variety of ways, from developing a budget, to establishing a
debt repayment plan or finding ways to prevent foreclosure. The site has
great resources, including a listing of community education workshops
related to money management, credit and consumer issues. Also, churches
will find printable inserts for bulletins containing worthwhile financial
advice.
To learn how you or someone you know can
access free, professional financial help, call 1-800-777-7419, or visit
the LSS web site (www.lssmn.org) and
click on "Financial / Debt Counseling."
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Around
the State
Brainerd: At LSS Camp
Knutson, construction is under way to remodel the boathouse and build a
new, adjoining bathhouse. The bathhouse will provide a
handicapped-accessible bathroom, outdoor showers, and a sauna and
whirlpool room for campers, especially for use during the fall and winter
months. The project is a gift from Dan and Sandi Thorson, and part of the
master plan to rebuild Camp Knutson for service to children with special
needs and their families for the next 50 years. Gifts to the camp have
provided the means to renovate nearly all camp facilities. New
construction has also been added, including the Husby Family Lodge and
Bazinet Recreation Center. Funding is still being sought for several
projects, including an infirmary/welcome center, a new cabin for
medically-fragile campers, and remodeling of the Camp Knutson staff
quarters. The Rebuilding for Good campaign for Camp Knutson will culminate
in a special celebration on August 23, 2003, the 50-year anniversary of
the camp.
Duluth: The LSS AIDS
Information Duluth project received a $10,000 grant from the Miller-Dwan
Foundation for prevention and awareness efforts.
Moorhead: National
statistics indicate that older caregivers often end up in institutional
care settings more often than those they care for because the caregivers
tend to neglect their own well-being while providing their full attention
to the care receiver. To reverse that trend, more funding under the
National Caring Network is being allocated for caregiver support programs.
As a result, LSS was awarded a major contract through the federal Older
Americans Act, administered by the West Central Area Agency on Aging, to
provide Caregiver Respite Support and Education in nine counties in
west-central Minnesota. Like a similar program that LSS operates in
northwest Minnesota, the new program will offer educational workshops for
family caregivers and provide trained volunteers for respite.
Statewide: 2002 tax law
changes will mean good news for families who want to adopt a child.
Effective January 1, 2002, the new tax law increases the maximum tax
credit for adoption from $5,000 to $10,000 in the year the expense
occurred. This credit is per adoption, and applies to international,
domestic and special needs adoptions. Moreover, the eligibility cap has
been raised so that families who earn up to $150,000, up from $75,000
previously, can receive the full tax credit. "This is terrific news for
families who want to adopt a child, as well as for the many children here
and around the world who need loving homes," said Richard Smith, director
of LSS Adoption Services. "We anticipate that the new tax law will give
many families the boost they need to adopt a child, or consider the
adoption of a second child."
Statewide: Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota is Minnesota's 92nd
largest employer, according to CityBusiness, a Twin Cities-based weekly
newspaper. LSS employs 2,182 individuals statewide in a wide variety of
services including community-based homes for persons with disabilities,
crisis shelters and group homes for children and teens, debt counseling,
senior nutrition, adoption, refugee services, counseling services, housing
programs for families in transition, and ElderShare Homes.
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Therapy Finds
Answers Right Where the Family Lives
It may start with a child's
missing school too often. Or there may be a report of abuse or neglect in
a home. Or there may be other, very visible signs that a family is in
trouble.
Regardless of origin, social
service directors in many Minnesota counties will call on LSS' In-Home
Therapy services to find out what the real problems are. Part of that
process is to determine what is or what is not happening within the
family's household environment, so that corrective actions can be taken.
The goal is always to assist the family in functioning appropriately as a
family unit. Bringing the therapist into the family's home is more
efficient and more effective than having the family visit the therapist's
office.
"Our in-home therapists are
highly skilled and experienced," said Charles Aasand, LSS' operations
director for Counseling and Family Resources in northwestern Minnesota.
"They have to be able to quickly assess a situation and determine how the
family can be helped. Their skills and abilities are especially important
because the counties that contract with LSS allow for only a few months of
therapy with each family."
Aasand points out that it is the
in-home therapist who often becomes the voice of reason or authority in a
family setting. It's not unusual for a family member to call the in-home
therapist at 11:00 p.m., asking for help with a problem the family is
facing.
Here's
what in-home therapists say in describing their work to help families to
become stronger:
Julie Theismann, clinical
director from the St. Cloud area, has provided in-home therapy, herself,
and, for over 20 years, has supervised other therapists doing this work.
She says that the first appointment can often be a challenge. "We try to
establish that the problems have to be "owned" by everyone in the family,
and that each person has a role in helping the family function
positively," Theismann explained. "After the first meeting, we focus on
progress in targeted areas."
Theismann shared that the work
can be very difficult, because there can be multiple problems that a
family is dealing with. "When we are called in, we often find that parents
have stopped parenting their kids. We show them the repercussions of
continuing on this course and give them tools to resume parenting," she
said.
Lisa Meyer, also from the St.
Cloud area, says that in-home therapy equalizes the power balance between
the family and the counselor. "When we are in the family's home, they are
in control, and they are in their comfort zone. This lets them feel more
comfortable and more willing to work on family problems," she said. "It
couldn't happen as easily in a counselor's office."
An adopted child herself, Meyers
tells a story about an in-home foster care situation involving two
children: a girl, age 10, who had already been in 19 foster homes; and her
brother, age 7, who had previously lived in 10 foster homes. These
children were African-Americans, and their Native American foster parents
wanted to adopt them. It took a lot of work, but these kids finally were
able to attach to the foster parents and return the love the parents
extended. The adoption was completed in 1999, and things are working out
well. In-home counseling was a large part of their success story, she
believes.
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Greater Independence
Changes Everything
Life
is good for Nancy Nordick.
Nancy rises each morning,
greeted by a beautiful view from her apartment window that overlooks the
winding Otter Tail River in Fergus Falls. Sometimes, she can see the mist
rising from the river in the early morning hours, when she is getting
ready for work at the Pioneer Nursing Home, where she is one of the
housekeeping staff.
Because her apartment is located
right downtown, she can walk down the street to the local drugstore to
pick up her medications, or join friends for a walk around nearby Lake
Alice.
Nancy, who has a mild
developmental disability, lives in a far different world today than she
did five years ago. Then, at age 27, she worked in a sheltered workshop
and lived in a group home environment with round-the-clock supervision.
But LSS staff soon discovered that she was far more capable and ready for
life, mostly on her own.
On May 21, 1997, she shed her
old life at the group home and stepped into a brand new one, moving into
an apartment and, soon after, starting a new job in the community.
"She is a much happier person
and relishes life," said Barb Conklin, LSS program manager. "Her newfound
independence changed everything. Her work performance shot up, and her
attitude about life was completely transformed. She is an absolute joy to
be around."
LSS staff provide four hours of
assistance each day to Nancy, "mostly to provide moral support, but we
help with a few tasks, too," Conklin added. That might include setting up
medical appointments, paying bills or helping Nancy reconcile her checking
account. Some employees, who have become much like an extended family,
also take Nancy to church on Sunday mornings.
But mostly, Nancy goes about her
daily routine on her own initiative. She especially takes pride in her
apartment, having recently furnished it herself with a new sofa and love
seat. If you visited her, she would give you the complete tour, showing
you the new furnishings, pictures on the wall of her family, and her
cherished fish.
It's home. "I really like it!"
Nancy said.
The LSS In-Home Support program
provides individualized support to help children and adults with
developmental disabilities to lead full, rewarding lives. Throughout
Minnesota, LSS staff support 129 people who need assistance with
communication skills, mobility, personal needs including grooming, money
management, well-being, household maintenance, coping skills and
involvement in the community.
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